I like to keep a special place in my library for happiness and inspiration. The study of happiness is called positive psychology and is relatively recent. This contrasts with most of clinical psychology which is focused on disease.
Practical Happiness Advice
- There’s some basic advice that can make you happy. Here are some of the basic concepts. I’ll highlight some of the relevant links from Professor Laurie Santos’s Happiness Lab Podcast. It’s important that happiness is something that you can work on and improve.
- Exercise: Do 20-30 minutes of cardiovascular exercise. It’ll make your heart and brain work better as well as reduce your stress levels.
- Meditate: Meditation lowers your blood pressure, heart rate and cholesterol levels. It also lets you put stressors in perspective.
- Friends and Family: Having friends and family you love and trust helps keep us calm. Even everyday social interactions make you happier. (Happiness Lab: Mistakenly Seeking Solitude)
- Sleep: The human body needs 7-9 hours of sleep. Less than this causes significant stress on the body.
- Create and Play: Thinking of ourselves as creators helps us to build a different identity apart from how we make money and therefore makes us more human. Play lets us do what we enjoy without any sort of higher purpose.
- Gratitude: Focus on the wonderful things you have, rather than the things you don’t. (Happiness Lab: Silver Lining)
- I took Yale’s Happiness Class, the most popular class ever given at the University. Here are my key takeaways from the online class. The class is available online along with a podcast that goes a bit deeper.
- The book The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt is a summary of the key wisdom and psychological research(1)The psychology research Jonathan Haidt uses is somewhat out of date due to the reproducibility crisis. on happiness. The big point of the book is that psychology is generally obsessed with resolving problems rather than helping you live better. Religion does a better job of the complex problem of how to live a good life.
- Jonathan Rausch wrote a great book called The Happiness Curve which explains the unhappiness of mid-life (sometimes called a mid-life crisis) and how it goes away. He has a good summary of the book in The Atlantic.
- Choose the most respectful interpretation. It’s always best to assume people are doing the best that they can. For example, if someone cuts you off on the highway, it’s best to assume that they REALLY needed to get somewhere fast—instead of holding on to the anger.
- Drew Dudley gives a quick TED Talk about how a simple act like giving a stranger a lollypop can change someone’s life.
- I wrote a piece on Edward Harkness, one of the world’s greatest humble philanthropists. He was a mediocre Yalie who donated a large fortune to Harvard and Yale in the 1930s so that other unexceptional students wouldn’t fall through the cracks.
- In the movie The Greatest Showman, the anthem of the song is This is Me. The video of the initial run-through is incredible. (added 2020)
- And don’t feel you can only love “important” things. Take a look at this great book review, How a Book About Grover Revealed to Me the Wide World of Literature.
- Some Good News is John Krasinski’s good news from around the world including a surprise rendition of Hamilton for a young girl who couldn’t go.
- This year was probably the very best year in the long history of humanity.
- Sarah Kay wrote the poem If I Should Have a Daughter that highlights the magical bits of parenting.
- Tania Finlayson has cerebral palsy. She worked with her husband to create a Morse code interface so she could talk.
- When Michael Bloomberg was mayor, he spent $650M of his own money helping run the city.
- When I’m looking for inspiration, I can always find it in Ze Frank’s work. There’s a great retrospective of his work in this TED talk. When I need some courage to get up and do something, I can always rely on this kickoff to his 2012 web series.
- This is just a great video about creativity and imagination from Disney World. When I was a teenager, there was a great pre-show movie in Epcot about imagination and creativity. The movie ran from 1995-2003. A few years ago, some people re-created the video based on the original movie
- Anil Dash had an amazing Twitter stream in early December asking Who is a person (not counting family) that opened doors for you in your career when they didn’t have to? Anytime is a good time to show gratitude!
- I went to Yale and here’s Why I Chose Yale. The first 5 minutes show what makes a great college experience and it was all put together by students and recent graduates.
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