Happiness & Inspiration


I like to keep a special place in my library for happiness and inspiration. The study of happiness is called positive psychology and is relatively recent. This contrasts with most of clinical psychology which is focused on disease.

Practical Happiness Advice

There’s some basic advice that can make you happy. Here are some of the basic concepts.

  • Exercise. Do 20-30 minutes of cardiovascular exercise. It’ll make your heart and brain work better as well as reduce your stress levels.
  • Meditate. Meditation lowers your blood pressure, heart rate and cholesterol levels. It also lets you put stressors in perspective.
  • Friends and Family. Having friends and family you love and trust helps keep us calm. Even everyday social interactions make you happier. (Happiness Lab: Mistakenly Seeking Solitude)
  • Sleep. The human body needs 7-9 hours of sleep. Less than this causes significant stress on the body.
  • Create and Play. Thinking of ourselves as creators helps us to build a different identity apart from how we make money and therefore makes us more human. Play lets us do what we enjoy without any sort of higher purpose.
  • Gratitude. Focus on the wonderful things you have, rather than the things you don’t. (Happiness Lab: Silver Lining)

Happiness Resources

  • I took Yale’s Happiness Class, the most popular class ever given at the University. Here are my key takeaways from the online class. The class is available online along with a podcast, The Happiness Lab. In the first episode, Professor Santos highlights that it’s important that happiness is something that you can work on and improve.
  • The book The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt is a summary of the key wisdom and psychological research(1)The psychology research Jonathan Haidt uses is somewhat out of date due to the reproducibility crisis. on happiness. The big point of the book is that psychology is generally obsessed with resolving problems rather than helping you live better. Religion does a better job of the complex problem of how to live a good life.
  • Jonathan Rausch wrote a great book called The Happiness Curve which explains the unhappiness of mid-life (sometimes called a mid-life crisis) and how it goes away. He has a good summary of the book in The Atlantic.
  • Choose the most respectful interpretation. It’s always best to assume people are doing the best that they can. For example, if someone cuts you off on the highway, it’s best to assume that they REALLY needed to get somewhere fast—instead of holding on to the anger.


2021 Updates

  • Joe Biden’s inauguration was inspiring. Not just the swearing in and inaugural address, but Lady Gaga singing the national anthem and a poem from the National Youth Poet Laureate Amanda Gorman. Also, I never thought I’d be so happy to see George W. Bush. Not to mention the Bernie Memes.
  • I watched the movie Rain Main for the first time. It was amazing to see how the screenwriter Barry Morrow turned Kim Peek, the world’s greatest autistic savant, into a movie character. But Morrow didn’t exploit Peek, he wanted to share him with the world, even giving him his Oscar statue. Morrow made Peek in a celebrity who could then talk to the world. For more on this amazing story watch The Real Rain Man. I also really like the show Atypical which highlights autism.
  • Come From Away came out this year on Apple TV+. The play has very little on the stage and each actor plays a number of different parts. The movie shows what theater can be (much like Hamilton). It’s the story of a the 6,000 transatlantic passengers who landed in Gander, Newfoundland when US Airspace closed on September 11, 2001. It’s a sweet story of how in the darkest of times, people can come together to help one another. You can also read about many of the true stories the show is based on.
  • Ted Lasso is a sweet and simple show about a fish out of water trying to be a football coach in the UK.

2020 Updates

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1 The psychology research Jonathan Haidt uses is somewhat out of date due to the reproducibility crisis.