This year Professor Laurie Santos created Yale’s most popular class of all time. The class is titled Psychology and the Good Life but it’s really a course on how to be happy both in the short and long term. I was excited to hear that Yale was offering the course but even more excited to see that the class is available online. She expanded on the class with her Happiness Lab Podcast. While there’s little I hadn’t heard before, it did a great job of focusing me on what’s important and helped me get into the practice of being happier.
In the class The Science of Well-Being, Professor Santos focuses on how we often look at our happiness not in an absolute way but by comparing ourselves to those around us. These thoughts about absolute vs. relative comparisons got me thinking about strawberry ice cream.
Whenever I eat strawberry ice cream, I think is pretty wonderful. It’s light, sweet, and just a little bit tangy. If I like strawberry ice cream so much, why am I surprised at this fact every time I eat it. I feel like I’m carrying some sort of bias against strawberry ice cream — but why?
I’m going to do a magic trick with a number. I’m going to take a number 1700 and by doing nothing more than raising and lowering it, I’m to show how the interpretation of the number can dramatically change. Let’s see how that can happen and then I’ll explain how that works.
When my wife was pregnant with our second son, we had a test for Downs Syndrome. This test had three parts:
- A “Nucal” sonogram that measured some key ratios. This was the most important test and sets the baseline.
- A blood test that measured blood proteins in the mother.
- A test of “soft markers” that refined the initial estimates based on other sonogram features.
So we had the initial test. The chance of an issue was 1 in 1700.
“Is that good?” We asked the doctor. “It sounds good to us.”
“Well, in order to be certain, you’d need to have an amniocentesis which has a 1 in 400 chance of serious problems,” said the doctor.
So 1 in 1700 is pretty darn good. Then we got the blood test back. The numbers were even better. Our chances now were 1 in 6800. That was 4 times better than we’d had before!
So we’d finished 2 or the 3 tests. Then, things got tough. We went in for a sonogram and the technician stopped at one point and said, “I need to get the doctor.” That’s never a good sign.
When the doctor came back he said, “Well, your child had 2 soft markers for Downs.”
“What does that mean?” we asked.
“Well, it means that your child has a higher chance of having Downs Syndrome. Maybe you should see a genetic counselor,” he said.
“Before we go down that route, how does this really alter our chances?” we asked.
“Well, we’re not really sure. One soft marker could double the chance of having Downs Syndrome. So 2 soft markers might increase the chance by as much as 4 times but it’s probably less than that,” he said.
“So you’re saying our chances are back to 1 in 1700.”
How did this happen? Behavioral Economics has an answer. In contrast to typical economic theory, Behavioral Economics looks at situations and sees how people really react — not how they would react in theory. The situation above is an example of Prospect Theory — the finding that losing something causes about twice as much pain as the pleasure you get from gaining something. So gaining and then losing the same amount still feels like a net loss.
I love Audible’s Daily Deal. For between $0.99 and $4.99 Audible has one deeply discounted book available per day. I get an email from Audible every day to stay on top of this. It’s a fun little thing for me to buy a few times a month that gets me really excited. I’ve found a number of fun things to read like As You Wish: Inconceivable Tales from the Making of The Princess Bride written and read by Cary Elwes (Wesley), The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connection, and Courage by Brene Brown, Cabin Pressure (a British Radio Comedy starring Benedict Cumberbatch and a Dramatized version of Star Wars. All of these were great listens and things that I wouldn’t have listened to otherwise. I like the immediacy of a Daily Deal in a lot of ways, especially ones that cost about as much as a cup of coffee. Instead of choosing the best possible book to buy, I just have to decide “Do I buy this one or not?” Also, I get great pleasure in being able to purchase a book that I really want at a serious discount!